Dial A for Aunties

Are familial duty and independence always in conflict? Is it possible that the two forces could complement each other? Consider Meddy’s wish specifically for physical distance from her family and the concept of setting boundaries with loved ones.

How is love—familial and romantic—depicted in this novel? Consider how the novel defines love in the context of the theme of Loyalty Versus Fear and Selfishness. How does love influence the characters’ choices and behaviors?

Why do you think the author chose to make Meddy a photographer? Consider the symbolism of Meddy’s Camera and her character arc. How do the different aspects of her role as a photographer play out within the theme of Familial Duty Versus Independence?

Explore the aunts’ dynamics. How does selfishness undermine their efforts to be loyal to Meddy and to each other? Consider how their professional roles in their wedding business help represent the manifestations of their selfishness.

What do you think holds Maureen and Jacqueline back from confessing their feelings for each other? Consider how each character must wrestle with the themes of Familial Duty Versus Independence and Loyalty Versus Fear and Selfishness.

How are race/ethnicity, nationality, and class explored in this novel? Consider all three in the context of the theme of Intergenerational Immigration.

How does Meddy, Nathan Chan, or another character of your choice embrace and/or resist their cultural heritage?

How is the concept of “sacrifice” depicted in the novel? How does it influence the characters?