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Winona Guo, Priya Vulchi

Tell Me Who You Are: Sharing Our Stories of Race, Culture, & Identity

Winona Guo, Priya VulchiNonfiction | Book | Adult | Published in 2021

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Chapters 3-4Chapter Summaries & Analyses

Chapter 3 Summary: “Our Richness, Race and Beyond”

The authors describe visiting key Civil Rights Movement sites in Montgomery, Alabama. Butler Browder (interviewed in the chapter) calls them to set the record straight. He is the son of Aurelia Eliscera Shines Browder, one of five women who led the movement. Along with Mary Louise Smith Ware, Jo Ann Gibson Robinson, Claudette Colvin, and Susie McDonald, she asked Martin Luther King Jr. to speak for them when they realized that gender limited their voices’ effectiveness. The authors realize they have limited knowledge about the Civil Rights Movement, in part because history erases women’s contributions. They explain that identity does not just encompass race but also factors like sex, ability, age, orientation, religion, immigrant status, gender identity, ethnicity, and class.

They explain intersectionality, a concept that has existed since the 1960s but was coined as a term in 1989 by Kimberlé Crenshaw. While they asked interviewees about the impact of intersectionality on them, they note that the point of intersectionality is not merely to name “all of our oppressed identities [...] and, crucially, not to use them as excuses to avoid the central injustice of race” (85). Instead, they advise consideration of how people can unite to bring down the systems responsible for all discrimination; they also note the importance of seeing how race is linked to other identities. This chapter includes 11 interviews.

Lauren, whose mother is Chinese, describes how her cerebral palsy, gender, and disability intersect, explaining that people with disabilities constitute the world’s largest and most underrepresented minority. A footnote expands on this idea by describing the inaccessibility of many subway stations for people with disabilities.

Keah, a Black woman with a disability, elaborates on the role of social media in connecting her with others with disabilities and teaching her self-love. Deb, as a Latina with bipolar disorder, also addresses the intersection between race and ability. She notes the misuse of the word “crazy,” and footnotes detail the number of people with severe mental health conditions in the US, as well as the number of people with disabilities around the world.

Ahyoka “Niki” has intersecting identities as a Keetoowah Cherokee, a Catholic, a transgender woman, and a Two-Spirit person. (Two-Spirit is explained in a footnote, as well as the number of people who speak the Cherokee language.) She describes how the Cherokee language doesn’t have a word for gender. Deja, a biracial transgender woman who has been a sex worker, discusses sex work in the transgender community, and footnotes provide statistics on the number of Black and Black multiracial, Latino, and white transgender sex workers; the notes also explain the terms “cisgender” and “transgender.”

Tracye, who is unemployed, queer, unhoused, and formerly lived in foster care, notes the impact of race on his orientation. He observes that he still experienced struggles as a Black man after marriage equality legislation passed. He describes the discrimination he faced in school and from the police, noting that Black police officers can be as racist as white ones. A footnote references the Great Black Migration.

Barry is a Muslim reporter who fled to the US after being tortured in Gambia. He notes that refugees can stay grounded in their cultural identity while adopting a new culture. Hamza, Ayesha, and Saboor are Pakistani Muslims, and Hamza sees herself as a feminist even though she says that men dominate Islam and Pakistan. Footnotes detail statistics about crimes against Muslims in the US, the Israel-Palestine conflict, and the post-traumatic stress disorder many refugees face.

Shermaine is a Black woman who works at the National Science Foundation to empower women in science; she lacked educational opportunities as a child and experienced discrimination during her doctoral program. She has also faced racism because of her marriage to a white man. Footnotes detail the number of Black and Latino doctoral students in Science, Technology, Engineering, and Math (STEM) fields who drop out, statistics on white-Black interracial couples, and the number of Black women who acquire degrees and jobs in science.

Butler describes the Rosa Parks case and how four other Black women (including his mother Aurelia) took on the Parks lawsuit. These women were arrested in bus boycott incidents before Parks, but she was chosen as the representative because she was light-skinned and “mild-mannered.” He explains their role in civil rights: “Our society was driven by men and what men say, but those men were afraid to challenge the segregation laws. They were afraid that they would be killed. They were afraid that they would lose their jobs. These women didn’t care” (104). A footnote explains the real facts behind the Rosa Parks story and Jo Ann Robinson’s role in the movement.

Vaughn, a Lakota Indian and community organizer focused on policing and prison, explains “poverty culture” as coming from colonialist practices; he also describes the impact of US history and laws on Lakota culture. Footnotes detail the numbers of Indigenous American inmates and discuss Indigenous American boarding schools in the 1870s.

Chapter 4 Summary: “Our Best Friends Are Still Strangers”

Chapter 4 addresses the notion that to truly know others, even loved ones, people must share their stories and truly listen to each other. The authors make a distinction between “soul stories,” or stories about identity, and “ego stories,” those about superficial aspects of one’s life, and emphasize the need to share soul stories for true knowledge of one other.

The introduction to this chapter relates the authors’ visit to Portland, Oregon, the whitest city in the US. They are shocked that some people think that racism doesn’t exist in the city, which they view as an example of people avoiding discussion of race.

The first interviewee is Burton, who is white. Burton adopted Shelley, who is Black, as well as Shelley’s sister, and Burton and Shelley describe their experiences as a biracial family. A footnote details the underrepresentation of Black children in special education, where Shelley was incorrectly placed as a child due to her accent.

Rosa is a pansexual queer woman who shares her story growing up undocumented, which hindered her work and college opportunities. She describes being gay and undocumented as “two closets to come out of” (128). A footnote details the number of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender (LGBT) undocumented immigrants in the US.

TJ and Cecil share their stories of discrimination and dealing with family as a gay and Chinese American person and a Black, gay transgender man. A footnote explains the difference between sex and gender.

As the founding executive director of the National Center for Race Amity, William, a Black man who married a white woman, discusses historical interracial friendships, such as Harriet Tubman’s friendship with Thomas Garrett. He expresses the need for interracial friendships to create change. His organization (detailed in a footnote) emphasizes racial amity and cooperation.

Sandra’s story details her intergenerational trauma (a concept explained in a footnote) due to food insecurity and poverty in her Korean American family. Her culture uses food to express love, a strange concept to her non-Korean partner and an example of how the lack of common culture can separate people.

John, a white police officer, and Lydia, his adopted Colombian daughter, see both sides of police issues. John acknowledges that everyone has biases but feels that the media ignores the positive contributions of officers. Footnotes define implicit bias and explain police bias against African Americans.

Tyler W., an Indigenous American, relates the story of being raised by his grandparents and discusses the challenges people face on reservations with substance abuse and suicide, topics addressed in the footnotes.

Laureen and Cara are a married couple. Laureen, who is half Black, was adopted by a white man and Filipina woman who changed her name to Lauren. She describes her adoption and childhood in a poor, racist town in Arkansas and how she reclaimed the name Laureen. She advocates for self-reflection among people of color and sees reclaiming her name as part of that process. Cara acknowledges her responsibility as a white person to teach her loved ones about the impact of white privilege and the importance of confronting it.

Chapters 3-4 Analysis

Chapters 3 and 4 focus on how Identity Is Intersectional and how sharing Stories, Language, and Conversations About Race and Identity can help one understand people better. These topics connect, as the stories that the authors highlight feature varied aspects of identity. However, the authors argue that race is central to identity, paralleling the book’s motivation and structure. Because racial literacy is its main goal, interviewees come from a variety of racial backgrounds and emphasize topics related to race: how race impacts all areas of society, the impact of past racism on the present, the importance of language when discussing race, intraracial divisions, and racial equity. Whether an intersectional approach to inequality should give all axes of oppression equal weight is a matter of scholarly debate. However, Tell Me Who You Are’s approach remains broadly intersectional because the authors do factor in other aspects of identity, even if they do so in relation to race: “Who we fully are is never exclusively about race” (84). What’s more, they emphasize addressing all forms of oppression—i.e., “dismantl[ing] unjust systems at the root and liberat[ing] everyone in the process” (85).

The interviewees relate to intersectionality in different ways; even those who share identities do not always agree with each other. This diversity stems partly from the book’s expansive understanding of intersectionality. Refugee status, religion, and educational opportunity are categories that feature less commonly in intersectional analysis than race, gender, or class, but the stories in Tell Me Who You Are suggest that these shape individuals’ lives to a significant degree. In fact, the list of identities considered relevant to intersectional analysis continues to expand to include areas like ability and physical appearance. Furthermore, because life experiences vary by individual, not all interviewees—even those of color—will feel race is their predominant identity.

Chapter 4’s idea of “soul stories” harkens to the idea that race and other social identities are at the very heart of who a person is. The authors argue that the inherently personal nature of such stories can help connect people, create understanding, and create a collective sense that everyone struggles with something; that struggle may just be different for one’s friend, family member, or a stranger.

William’s story suggests that forging interracial friendships may be a means to share these kinds of soul stories. However, the personal nature of these stories can make them difficult to share, even among people of the same community. For example, Tyler W.’s discussion of substance abuse and suicide in Indigenous American communities centers on topics that people often don’t talk about; the implication is that these uncomfortable issues must be shared to raise awareness and facilitate prevention. Sandra’s story of trauma is another example of an uncomfortable but important soul story to share.

The self-reflection Laureen advocates is a way to share soul stories with oneself. Implying that people often don’t reflect on or learn from their own experiences, she argues, “Self-reflection is such a key part in the pedagogy of the oppressed, and one of the vehicles that will lead you to liberation. I think we all reclaim culture differently. For me, part of that was reclaiming my name” (143). This idea of reclamation lays the groundwork for the next chapter, which considers the importance of language when discussing race.

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