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Two Boys Kissing opens with the words, “You can’t know what it is like for us now—you will always be one step behind. Be thankful for that. You can’t know what it was like for us then—you will always be one step ahead. Be thankful for that, too” (1). Levithan writes from the perspective of the gay men of the past who did not survive the AIDS epidemic. Their voices become an omnipresent narrator to the lives of the young gay boys whose stories are the book’s central narratives. Levithan presents the chorus as ancestral watchers over the lives of the queer youth of the present day. The chorus’ pains, triumphs, struggles and joys are inexorably intertwined with the current generation’s.
Sexual orientation and gender identity are separate branches of a person’s identity. Unlike race, religion, and culture, sexual and gender minorities don’t have the built-in culture and community that comes with those other aspects of identity. Queer people tend to find each other during adolescence or even adulthood, and have historically formed new communities and families, especially when their families and communities have rejected them. The voices of the past in Two Boys Kissing represent a lost generation that was building the kinds of communities and cultures for queer people that they didn’t have growing up. They represent the missing generation who wanted to make the world safer and more inclusive for the generations coming after them, but passed away, taking many of those foundations with them.
Levithan uses their voices in the same way that a Greek playwright might use the chorus. They observe and narrate, unable to affect the story. However, this chorus of voices also reflect the experiences of the characters and compare them to the very real, raw experiences of the queer people of the past. The characters’ experiences reflect both how far the world has come with LGBTQ equality, and how far it still has to go. Harry’s and Craig’s attempt to break a Guinness World Record is light-hearted and innocent, but the kiss becomes more profound as Levithan compares Harry’s difficulty—making it through the 32-hour ordeal—to the battle that many queer people experienced when trying to survive deadly HIV infections. “When your body starts to turn against you—when the surface value of the skin is nothing compared to the fireworks of pain in your muscles and your bones—the supposed truth of beauty falls away, because there are more important concerns to attend to” (149).
Cooper Riggs uses dating websites to chat with men online, in order to find connection in a world in which he feels utterly alienated. For many LGBTQ youths, the internet has become a place to find community and acceptance, even when their family and real-world communities reject and threaten them. Avery mentions using the internet to find other transgender kids when he didn’t have support in his own community, and even the livestream that Tariq sets up to stream the Big Kiss helps queer people all over the world find connections to their people.
The social internet refers to any apps or websites used for person-to-person communication. Social media like Twitter, Facebook, and TikTok are examples of the social internet, but so are video apps like YouTube, chat apps like Snapchat and WhatsApp, blogs, forums, and message boards. The social internet at its best can people find others like them, who enjoy the same things and who make them feel less alone. Cooper, who feels isolated in his day-to-day life, uses dating apps for this purpose. He doesn’t understand what he’s feeling after enduring his father’s verbal and physical abuse, and his pain manifests itself in seeking random hook-ups with older men who won’t care about him, because he doesn’t care about himself, anymore. His mental state prevents him from seeking healthy connections with other LGBTQ people, and even when Julian, the date he finds online, treats him with respect and kindness, he rejects it.
For Avery, online groups helped him feel seen in a world where people tended to see him as an oddity. Avery’s parents, likewise, found groups online to help them find resources and doctors for Avery. For so many other queer people around the world, watching the Big Kiss gave them hope. They were able to see themselves in Harry and Craig and be inspired by their bravery.
Cooper’s attempted death by suicide is inspired by the real-life suicide of Tyler Clementi, a 19-year-old college student who jumped to his death from the George Washington Bridge after being cyberbullied by his roommate. The unfortunate reality of too many queer youths is that anti-gay abuse and lack of support has led to higher rates of death by suicide. Levithan compares these deaths to the deaths from the AIDS epidemic a few decades ago. The chorus watches as young queer people hurt themselves and are hurt by others, reminded of their own suffering.
There are inklings of Cooper’s path to suicide throughout his story, and while his attempt itself is based on a specific case, his story reflects the experiences of many LGBTQ kids who fall through the cracks and feel rejected by the world. Likewise, Tariq’s endurance of a hate crime highlights the experiences of real queer people who didn’t survive similar attacks. When the chorus asks, “Why must we die over and over again?”, they mention those who not only died by suicide or disease but also by hate crimes (189):
It does not bring back the twelve-year-old who put a gun to his head. It does not bring back the fourteen-year-old who hung himself. It does not bring back the nineteen-year-old strung up on the side of an empty highway and left to die. It does not bring back the thirteen-year-old who took a stomach full of pulls. It does not bring back any of us (190).
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By David Levithan